Choose your emotions

The biggest lie we've ever accepted is that we are powerless to change our reactions to events around us. We can choose to get angry, to be offended or to simply let things pass. We can choose to get excited about something, to enjoy it in the moment, to be cynical or full of joy. These are all our...

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Feel your emotions

But society expects us to feel a certain way, and anything else is not allowed. It's why we have a population of people so dependent on anti-depressants. To feel any way besides happy is seen as somehow wrong; a problem that must be fixed. We're not allowed to be sad or upset without being labeled with some type of...

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On happiness and dissatisfaction

It is not the material things that makes us happy. True happiness comes from inside. Those, who focus on their possession and the money they earn can´t be truly happy. I think people get caught up with wanting the "next" thing. They feel they will only be happy once they get a promotion, make more money, go on a...

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On condemning others

We condemn and judge others because their sins are different from ours. I commit sin A, you commit sin B, yet you condemn me just because I didn't sin the kind of sin that you are comfortable with. One thing's for sure - we're all sinners and only God shall judge. Sent from my BlackBerry wireless device from MTN...

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The Garden of Eden test

I've come to discover that most of the actions or decisions we take are often and greatly influenced by what people around us think, do or say. Think about this, most people buy high tech phones, not because they need to perform high tech tasks, but because they want to feel hippie and be part of the culture. A...

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You can't see the future, but atleast always be in motion

I have realized I can't see all there is for me in the future, but i need to let go of all my fears and follow my passion one bit at a time (no matter how slow and small). The idea of letting go is like driving at night. Your headlights can only see the next few hundred feet...

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What do Nigerians really want?

While doing some programming, as expected, I encountered some challenges on how to join two tables in oracle database. So I quickly yanked up Google Nigeria. As I typed "how to join", here's what I found. My question is; in this context, why is illuminati and church of satan the most searched phrases in Nigeria. Perhaps because these bodies...

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